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How To Find The Right Therapist, Psychologist, Or Counselor

Jan 27

Choosing a therapist is a crucial choice since working with the proper one may help you recover your life and preserve your health. Choosing a therapist may be a good and fruitful first step toward greater mental health when you understand what elements impact treatment success and what to look for.

What Does It Take to Be A Successful Therapist?

Knowing what therapists do may assist you in selecting the best therapist for your needs. Therapists can assist with stress management, relationship issues, the affects of living with a mental illness, and more. They can also help with stress management, relationship problems, the repercussions of living with a mental illness, and more.

You will get the most out of your treatment time if you are judicious in your choices. It's critical to choose a therapist with good qualifications and great interpersonal skills, since these qualities lead to a sense of trust and growth. 

A therapist isn't a confidante who listens to your problems and offers suggestions. Instead, seek out a knowledgeable expert who can assist you in identifying and changing negative thinking patterns and/or troublesome behaviors while still embracing you for who you are. 3 A skilled therapist will assist you in improving without passing judgment on your difficulties.

When Looking For A Therapist, There Are A Few Things To Keep In Mind

There are several aspects to consider when searching how to find the right therapist, including specialization, personality, cost, and schedule.

Understand Your Goals

What motivates you to seek mental health treatment? The more detailed you can be when answering why you desire treatment, the more prepared you will be to get the most out of your sessions.

Consider the following questions to determine what you want to get out of therapy:

  • What problems are you presently dealing with?
  • What impact do they have on you? Consider your feelings and thoughts, as well as the influence they have on your life.
  • What do you want to get out of therapy? What do you expect will improve as a consequence of this?

Many times, individuals simply sense something isn't right in their lives but struggle to put it into words. This is very natural and acceptable. One of the goals of therapy is to help you make sense of what you're going through. As a result, you don't need to come up with long, thorough solutions to these queries. Allow them to assist you in forming a rough aim so that you may ask a possible therapist whether he or she can help you with your needs.


Personality Compatibility

Finding a therapist with whom you connect is likely the most important consideration in selecting one. Hundreds of research have shown that the therapeutic alliance, or the connection between the therapist and the client, is critical to therapy's effectiveness.

Several aspects contribute to a healthy, supportive relationship, including:

  • Personalities: It's critical to have a good relationship (but not a friendship) with your therapist. A feeling of rapport is a term used to describe this. Trust: You should be able to confide in your therapist about your ideas, emotions, and actions. Authenticity: A good therapist is open and honest, displaying expertise while avoiding jargon (appearing as an expert but not as a know-it-all). Unconditional positive regard: A therapist worth your time and money respects you and believes in your potential to improve (rather than viewing you as broken or dependent).
  • Positive communication: Even while pointing out areas for improvement, therapists should speak honestly and cheerfully.
  • Your own preferences and degree of comfort: When you feel connected to and comfortable with your therapist, you can do your best healing work. You should also seek out a therapist who is experienced with your situation. For people who identify as LGBTQIA, BIPOC, or Latinx, this is extremely crucial.

Certifications, Licensing, And Education

There are many distinct kinds of mental health professions, each with its own set of qualifications, licenses, and certifications. Professional qualifications indicate that he or she has undergone years of specialized training in order to assist those who are dealing with mental health issues. This conveys the amount of knowledge and skill necessary to not just assist people but also to prevent injuring them.

Their degree of education, as well as their certification and licensing status, are indicated by the usage of credentials next to their name. When you call their office, you may also inquire about their qualifications.


While most therapists see a wide range of clients for a number of reasons, others specialize in certain areas. Some, for example, concentrate on sadness, anxiety, or other issues. Some mental health professionals specialize on a certain age group.

Furthermore, therapists have unique approaches to individuals and issues. Many various types of therapy exist, each focusing on a particular aspect of the issue, such as ideas, emotions, or behavior. The following are some examples of frequent forms of therapy:

  • CBT (cognitive-behavioral therapy) is a therapeutic method that teaches individuals how to recognize and alter unhelpful, negative thinking patterns.
  • Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) is a kind of psychotherapy that aims to help people accept and commit to The focus of ACT is on attitudes and actions that lead to value-driven objectives.
  • Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is a technique for coping with emotions and discomfort that includes problem-solving and action skills training.
  • Exposure and response therapy (ERT) is a kind of therapy that aids in the treatment of anxiety and phobias. To assist persons with obsessive compulsive disorder and associated disorders break the cycle of obsessions and compulsions, ERT combines exposure treatment with response prevention.
  • Person-centered therapy (PCT) is a kind of psychotherapy that The therapist's major purpose in person-centered or client-centered treatment is not to teach skills, but to listen to the client and participate in dialogue that helps the client figure out how to go ahead.

Each therapy method has significance in and of itself. What matters is that a therapist's approach is evidence-based and goal-oriented, while still staying flexible and sensitive to your unique needs and experiences. 

Cost And Insurance Protection

When selecting a therapist, cost is an essential factor to consider. It's OK to enquire about treatment fees before choosing a therapist.

You have the right to get the following information from your therapist's office or your insurance company:

  • The costs of their treatment (many therapists charge per 50-minute session).
  • Whether or when her your mental health insurance is accepted (you might have to contact your insurance company or look at a list of approved providers on their website).
  • How much of your medical expenses will be covered by your insurance, and how much will you have to pay out of pocket?
  • If your insurance has a restriction on how many sessions you may have, and how your therapist fulfills that limit (for example, if your insurance only covers six weeks of treatment, can your therapist develop a six-week plan for you or give alternate payment alternatives beyond six weeks?).
  • Whether or whether the therapist accepts Medicaid or Medicare.
  • If they provide a sliding charge structure depending on your income, take advantage of it.

While treatment should not add to your life's burdens by creating financial hardship, while assessing the expenses of therapy, consider the long-term advantages. Working with a therapist is a wise investment in your mental health and overall well-being. Is this something you'd be willing to forego spending in other areas of your life for?


When choosing a therapist, practical concerns such as office location and schedule flexibility are critical. The therapist you pick must see clients at hours that are convenient for you, and it helps if his or her practice is close by. However, don't choose a therapist just because of their convenient location. If working with a therapist you trust and who can help you move ahead is worth altering your schedule or traveling a little farther out of the way, it could be worth it.

Many therapists and counselors now provide online treatment (also known as video therapy or teletherapy), in which the therapist and client communicate through video chat that is HIPAA compliant (similar to doing a call on FaceTime or Skype, but more secure). Because video therapy removes the need for anybody to travel, it might make arranging a session more convenient. According to studies, online and in-person counseling are about similar in terms of efficacy.

Consider your gender, sexual orientation, religion, race & ethnicity, and cultural background in addition to the aforementioned. Your age might also play a role. Some therapists, for example, focus on young individuals, while others deal mostly with elders. In any or all of these areas, how essential is it to you to work with someone who is similar to you? Would you feel at ease discussing personal things with someone from a different background? For people who identify as LGBTQIA, BIPOC, or Latinx, this is extremely crucial.

Taking into account each of these aspects will assist you in determining what is most essential to you. But how can you know whether a therapist satisfies your requirements? Your first phone contact and first few treatment sessions, as well as a glance at their website or other professional profile, may all assist.